The journal

Things worth reading before you book anything

Everything here is something we have been asked in a first meeting and then had to explain again the following week.

More from the studio

Written for couples planning it themselves as much as for ours.

Knocking, engagement, white: choosing the order

Three ceremonies, two families and one weekend. How couples actually sequence them, what each side expects to happen first, and the two orders that reliably cause an argument.

Traditional rites · 8 minutes

Harmattan or the rains: what the season does to a day

December light is the best of the year and the dust will ruin a white cloth by four. June will rain for forty minutes and then stop. Planning around both, rather than hoping.

Planning · 6 minutes

The guest list conversation nobody enjoys

Two hundred names, a hundred and twenty seats and four parents. A method that gets you there without anybody feeling cut, tested over about three hundred lists.

Planning · 7 minutes

Kente, lace and the case for one fabric

Choosing a single cloth for the family and letting everything else follow it. Why it costs less, photographs better, and stops a compound looking like four different weddings.

Design · 5 minutes

How to read a caterer's quote

Per head, service charge, staff transport, corkage, breakages. The five lines that turn a good number into a bad one, and the questions that get them out in the open.

Money · 9 minutes

Once a month

One letter a month: what we learned on the last celebration, what a supplier has quietly changed about their pricing, and one venue we walked. No offers, because we do not have any.

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